It’s been a rough few days. Yesterday I had an echocardiogram, my power port was placed in my chest, and I had a bone marrow biopsy. I’ve also been receiving pain medications and steroids around the clock. I am tired. I am hungry. I want to go home.
But I can’t. I have work to do here—work that I am determined to accomplish with grace, with gratitude, with a smile whenever possible.
*Amazing Book Spoiler Alert*
Recently, a wonderful woman shared The Riddle-Master of Hed trilogy with me. In those books, the main character Morgan trusts the High One’s Harpist, Deth, who eventually betrays him to an evil wizard not once, but twice. Morgan is subsequently tortured, but during that time he learns from his torturers, gathering power, gathering strength until he finally breaks free. At first, Morgan seeks to destroy the harpist that nearly destroyed him. His plans change, though, and, in the end, Morgan discovers that the harpist was, in fact, the High One—the ruler of the land, the giver of peace, security. The High One had this message to Morgan: that he “betrayed” Morgan, he let those terrible things happen to him so that he’d be prepared, so that he would be strong, so that he would be ready to inherit the purpose that the High One had for him. The High One loved Morgan and those bad things that happened—he would have prevented them if there had been any other way to assist Morgan in his journey.
Now, I know that this book is fiction. I know that I am not Morgan and, please, let there be no comparisons made between Morgan’s torturers and the wonderful care team administering all of the procedures designed to save my life. The members of my care team are gentle, bighearted guides that I trust with my life. They are intent on seeing me through this.
No, the only similarity between my story and Morgan’s is that pain happens for a reason. I have to believe that there is a greater purpose at work here. I have to believe that what I am going through, even if it never helps me, will help someone else.
Dear Readers, you’re right to say that cancer sucks. You’re right to shout “fuck cancer” as loud and as long as you want. You can cry. You can sob. You can do whatever it is that will help you deal with this news because, truthfully, I’ve been doing the same thing (except maybe the yelling – no need to get bed restrained lol). Amid my tears, though, I am determined to see the positive. I am determined to count the blessings inherent in each day.
For instance, as I write this, there is warm sunshine pouring through my hospital room window. Right now, my back isn’t hurting as badly as what it was. Right now, I am sitting upright and doing what I love to do—write. I have to count my blessings when I can because gratitude is the key to strength, to getting through this.
As is your love.
Please keep the positive vibes, prayers and words of encouragement coming my way. They are air and food to me. They are nourishment. They fortify me. YOU are saving me from the emotional anguish of this disease and, for that, I will be eternally grateful.
The only thing I can offer is my love and the hope that all of this is happening for a reason—for a greater good.
With Love, Laura